So we are a happy family and we have no
secrets from one another
If we are unhappy
We have to keep it a secret
and we ARE unhappy that we have to keep it a secret
And unhappy that we have to keep secret
The fact
that we have to keep it a secret
and that we are keeping all that secret.
But since we are a happy family you can see
This difficulty does not arise.
Friday, September 10, 2010
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Dr.Laing's ' Experience '
Experience is a flame which constantly melts and recasts our theories.
The inner does not become outer, and the outer become inner, just by the re-discovery of the inner.
We can see other people's behaviour, but not their experience.
Your experience of me is not inside you and my experience of you is not inside me, but your experience of me is invisible to me and my experience of you is invisible to you.
I cannot experience your experience. You cannot experience my experience.
I cannot avoid trying to understand your experience because although I do not experience your experience which is invisible to me, yet I experience you as experiencing. I EXPERIENCE myself as EXPERIENCED by you. And I experience you as experiencing yourself as experienced by me.
The inner does not become outer, and the outer become inner, just by the re-discovery of the inner.
We can see other people's behaviour, but not their experience.
Your experience of me is not inside you and my experience of you is not inside me, but your experience of me is invisible to me and my experience of you is invisible to you.
I cannot experience your experience. You cannot experience my experience.
I cannot avoid trying to understand your experience because although I do not experience your experience which is invisible to me, yet I experience you as experiencing. I EXPERIENCE myself as EXPERIENCED by you. And I experience you as experiencing yourself as experienced by me.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
EYES ON GOAL
We can not think, feel, will, or act without the perception of some goal.
It can be demonstrated that all psychic activities are given a direction by means of a previously determined goal.
Every psychic phenomenon,if it is to give us any understanding of a person, can only be grasped and understood if regarded as a preparation for some goal.
As soon as the goal of a psychic movement of its life-plan has been recognised, then we are to assume that all the movements of its constituent parts will coincide with both the goal and the life-plan.
When combined, the properly understood part movements give the picture of an integrated life-plan and final goal.
It can be demonstrated that all psychic activities are given a direction by means of a previously determined goal.
Every psychic phenomenon,if it is to give us any understanding of a person, can only be grasped and understood if regarded as a preparation for some goal.
As soon as the goal of a psychic movement of its life-plan has been recognised, then we are to assume that all the movements of its constituent parts will coincide with both the goal and the life-plan.
When combined, the properly understood part movements give the picture of an integrated life-plan and final goal.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
10 ASSERTIVE THOUGHTS
1. You have the right to judge your own behaviour,thoughts and emotions, and have the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself.
2. You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behaviour.
3. You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other peoples problems.
4. You have the right to make mistakes- and be responsible for them.
5. You have the right to change your mind.
6. You have the right to say "I don't know".
7. You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them.
8. You have the right to be illogical in making decisions.
9. You have the right to say "I don't understand", and also "I don't care".
10.YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY 'NO' WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY.
2. You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behaviour.
3. You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other peoples problems.
4. You have the right to make mistakes- and be responsible for them.
5. You have the right to change your mind.
6. You have the right to say "I don't know".
7. You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them.
8. You have the right to be illogical in making decisions.
9. You have the right to say "I don't understand", and also "I don't care".
10.YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY 'NO' WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
SELF-SUGGESTION
It is a well known fact that one comes, finally,to believe whatever one repeats to one's
self,WHETHER THE STATEMENT BE TRUE ARE FALSE.
If a man repeats a lie over and over, he will eventually acccept the lie as truth.
Moreover, he will believe it to be the truth.Every man is what he is because of the dominating thoughtswhich he permits to occupy his mind,and encourages with sympathy,and
with which he mixes any one or more of the emotions,constitute the motivating forces which
direct and control his every movement,act and deed.
THOUGHTS THAT ARE MIXED WITH ANY OF THE FEELINGS OF EMOTIONS CONSTITUTE A "MAGNATIC"
FORCE,WHICH ATTRACTS OTHER SIMILAR OR RELATED THOUGHTS.
self,WHETHER THE STATEMENT BE TRUE ARE FALSE.
If a man repeats a lie over and over, he will eventually acccept the lie as truth.
Moreover, he will believe it to be the truth.Every man is what he is because of the dominating thoughtswhich he permits to occupy his mind,and encourages with sympathy,and
with which he mixes any one or more of the emotions,constitute the motivating forces which
direct and control his every movement,act and deed.
THOUGHTS THAT ARE MIXED WITH ANY OF THE FEELINGS OF EMOTIONS CONSTITUTE A "MAGNATIC"
FORCE,WHICH ATTRACTS OTHER SIMILAR OR RELATED THOUGHTS.
Monday, February 8, 2010
POWER
Their power is my perception of their power. Their power is my thought. The source
of their power is, therefore, in my mind.
The power others possess is the power I give them.
Their power is my gift. If I have endowed the other with power that the other does not posssess,
then I face my own power, do I not.....?
My own power has become my opponent, my enemy.
Power is first an idea,first a perception.The power I face is always thepower I perceive.
Let me say it differently. Their power is my perception of their power.Their power is my
thought. The source of their power,is therefore, in my mind.
Their power is my perception of their power. Their power is my thought. The source
of their power is, therefore, in my mind.
The power others possess is the power I give them.
Their power is my gift. If I have endowed the other with power that the other does not posssess,
then I face my own power, do I not.....?
My own power has become my opponent, my enemy.
Power is first an idea,first a perception.The power I face is always thepower I perceive.
Let me say it differently. Their power is my perception of their power.Their power is my
thought. The source of their power,is therefore, in my mind.
Friday, January 22, 2010
They Said It.
I some times give myself admirable advice,but I'm incapable of taking it.
Mary W. Montague.
Advice is like castor oil, easy enough to give but dreadfully uneasy to take.
Josh Billings.
A company is known by the men it keeps.
Mellon Inst. News.
Some people pay a complement as if they expected a receipt.
Kin Hubbard.
I some times give myself admirable advice,but I'm incapable of taking it.
Mary W. Montague.
Advice is like castor oil, easy enough to give but dreadfully uneasy to take.
Josh Billings.
A company is known by the men it keeps.
Mellon Inst. News.
Some people pay a complement as if they expected a receipt.
Kin Hubbard.
QUOTESSSSS
I often quote myself; it adds spice to my conversation.
A drama critic is a man who leaves no turns unstoned.
George B Shaw
Conscience.! The inner voice which warns us that someone may be watching.
H.L.Mencken
Most men are like eggs, too full of themselves to hold anything else.
Reason often makes mistakes, but conscience never does.
Josh Billings.
I often quote myself; it adds spice to my conversation.
A drama critic is a man who leaves no turns unstoned.
George B Shaw
Conscience.! The inner voice which warns us that someone may be watching.
H.L.Mencken
Most men are like eggs, too full of themselves to hold anything else.
Reason often makes mistakes, but conscience never does.
Josh Billings.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
LANGUAGE
Language is used to deceive. Peaple are very much afraid of being silent because
if they are silent,then their faces, their very presence, may say something which
they don't want to say; They feel better to go on talking so that both persons remain engaged in words and the realities remain hidden behind the words.
OSHO
Language is used to deceive. Peaple are very much afraid of being silent because
if they are silent,then their faces, their very presence, may say something which
they don't want to say; They feel better to go on talking so that both persons remain engaged in words and the realities remain hidden behind the words.
OSHO
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