Therefore do not be foolish,but understand what the will of the Lord is; and do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery but be filled with the spirit, addressing one another in psalms, and hymes and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with all your heart,always and for everything giving thanks in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God the Father. Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Ephesians 5 : 17-21

How foolish that man and woman should try to conquer each other.
Be guided not by one or the other but by both together.
Follow the primal calling and each be humbled before the one that is both .

How can man and woman, searching for each other ,be peaceful? Every look sees only searching and the whole world is turned into one need. Hunger grips below the belly, the heart echos lonely and hollow, and everyone becomes possibility-such struggle and ritual and turnings!
Such foolish seriousness.

Do more than exist _ LIVE
Do more than look _ OBSERVE
Do more than read _OBSORB
Do more than hear _LISTEN
Do more than listen _ UNDERSTAND
Do more than think _PONDER
Do more than plan _ACT
Do more than talk _SAY SOMETHING.

Rule A : Don"t.

Rule A1 :Rule A does not exist.

Rule A2 : Do not discuss the existence or nonexistence of rules A, A1, or A2

Jill You put me in the wrong
Jack I am not putting you in the wrong.
Jill You put me in the wrong for thinking you put me in the wrong
Jack Forgive me.
Jill No
Jack I'll never forgive you for not forgiving me

THE GAME

They are playing a game.
They are playing at not playing a game.
If I show them I see they are (playing a game )
I shall break the rules and they will punish me.
I must play their game of not seeing,
I see the game.
Dr. Laing.